Jan
20

The Best Wedding of The Year

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I’ve to warn you… my first post of the year is going to be quite a long one.

If you stay to read on, you’ll understand why I’m so excited to share my happiness with you.

And I assure you that there’s lots of valuable tips packed in this blogpost.

So, as you probably know… it’s been a week since my wedding banquet.

But somehow, it feels as though everything just happened yesterday.

I still get excited every time I think about it before going to bed.

It certainly was a wedding like no other.

All the guest were seated at their table in the ballroom anticipating the arrival of the bride and groom.

But everyone soon became bewildered when the banquet commenced with a rather odd message that appeared on the projector screen.

It read, “We are sorry to announce that the wedding banquet is cancelled because the Bride and Groom have met with some unforeseen circumstances and are not able to make it on time. However, the banquet will still carry on and we would like you to watch a short video clip of the wedding ceremony that managed to take place earlier today… We hope you enjoy your dinner.”

Then, a scene of what seemed to be the usual oriental wedding customary practice took over the big screen.

My band of brothers (best-men) and I, went over to my in-laws’ to receive my bride.

Everything resembled the usual wedding video that you see in most banquets until a series of unfortunate events unfolded before the audiences’ eyes.

My bride was kidnapped and I was held captive by some weapon wielding hooligans who knocked me unconscious.

There were mixed reactions in the crowd. Some people became worried, a few others seemed to be spell-bound by the screen not knowing how to react.

It was a video, that no one expected to watch at a banquet.

Somehow I managed to escape and I successfully knocked down five baddies single-handedly in the video.

I even sent a guy flying 2 storeys high with an uppercut punch!

Everyone was eventually relieved when they realized they were actually watching a movie all along!

The movie ended with me rescuing my bride as we made our way to the wedding banquet with a stolen car.

Then, accompanied with a timely romantic song, the lights came on in the ballroom as shimmering confetti’s were being popped all around the room.

Everyone began cheering wildly when we entered the ballroom arm in arm.

It was a grand entrance.

Everyone was having lots of fun throughout the banquet.

It was definitely a night to remember.

Friends and relatives came up to us telling us that this was by far the best wedding banquet they have ever attended.

Atlas, our 6 months of intensive planning and hard work have finally paid off.

We have made our wedding day memorable not only for us, but for our friends and relatives as well.

You might have realized, most wedding banquets are pretty standard.

It usually begins with a short video montage of the newly wed’s childhood and wedding photos.

Then the newly weds will make an grand entrance before being invited on stage to make a toast.

While food are being served, both the bride and groom will walk to every table in the ballroom to take group photos with the guests.

Then the banquet ends subtly without a note as guests bid the family farewell after they finish the last dish of the night.

And we didn’t want ours to be “just another wedding”.

We wanted our guests to leave happily with a positive and lasting impression.

Instead, we took the usual wedding banquet “template” (for a lack of a better description)… personalize it and made it our own.

That’s how our wedding stood out from the rest.

And I found that taking something that’s been proven to work and adding your own personal touch to it can bring you even greater results.

This also applies to your internet business.

In fact, one of the things that I pride myself on in my internet business, is my ability to effectively sell through emails.

I could easily rake in between $2000-$10,000 in 24 hours just by sending an email to my subscribers.

But of course, l started out with using proven email formulas taught by various internet gurus.

I experimented with quite a lot of different types of emails. Some worked, so didn’t.

Some of the email formulas that have worked very well for me over the years includes:

– Hypey but very short emails that creates lot of curiosity.
– Content emails that gives away 1 or 2 tips that my subscribers can apply and see results.
– Giving fair and honest opinions about a product that I have used or have used
by others. (soft-selling)

But what really made the huge difference in my income over the years, is the way I personalized my emails that my subscribers can relate to.

I decided to add in a personal touch to my emails. I wrote my emails to them as if I’m writing a letter to a very close friend.

I’ll also tell them about what I’m doing… share stories about my travels and personal experiences and I’ll even add a picture to the email.

Recently, I sent a couple of emails to my subscribers about how I would like to celebrate my wedding with them by giving them a special gift.

I was going to invite my long-time friend and mentor, Daegan Smith to come down to Asia to give a 2-day live training (By the way, all the seats are sold out)

I learnt many useful strategies from Daegan that made a whole lot of difference to my business and I wanted my subscribers to be able to learn from him as well.

There were only 50 seats available for this training and majority of it were taken up when I sent out a “post wedding” email that described the amount of fun my subscribers could be in for if they were present at my wedding.

Amazing, isn’t it.

There’s not really a whole lot of science into it… just that most people tend to forget that an internet business is a business about people.

NOT the internet… and most certainly… NOT the computer.

When a customer hands you his money and buys your product, it is his way of saying,

“I like you and I trust you”.

With all the competiton on the internet that’s selling similar products, the only way to dominate the market is to set yourself apart from the rest.

Just like how…

Sony dominates the electronics market.
Apple dominates smart phones
Mac Donald’s dominates the fast-food industry… etc.

Ask yourself, how can you be different?

Instead of re-inventing the wheel, how can you improve the way of doing things?

When I first learnt about how to build an internet business, I found that many internet gurus give really great tips.

But most of them don’t provide with very good hands on support. The most I got when I needed help was their email.

Unfortunately, not many of them are on the ball with their email support which could take days or a week to answer my question.

The most frustrating part about it is that when they do get back to me, I couldn’t understand their written instructions.

I mean c’mon… I was a complete newbie then.

To me, giving great support to my students is a huge thing.

I didn’t want my students to struggle with “figuring things out” like I did.

So I have a team of well-trained coaches that my students can communicate with.

Whenever they need help, they can talk to one of my coaches over the phone to solve the problem.

If things still doesn’t work out, we allow them to make an appointment to drop by the office at no charge!

Till today, I still have students coming back to me saying that I provide the best customer support.

And because of this, their friends want to take up my course too.

Again, that’s what I did… I found a proven solution (for this case, providing customer support) and I improve it by personalizing it (giving more personal and intimate help to the customers).

You’ll soon realize that you can also apply this formula to other areas of your life including your internet business.

So remember, the next time you want to do anything successful…

Find a proven solution and add your personal touch to it and you’ll be amazed by the results.

With that, me and my wife would like you to wish you a fulfilling “Dragon” year that is filled with Love and Wealth!

Categories : Jaz Lai

Comments

  1. Hi Jaz.

    With the ‘real’ kidnappings that have occurred recently, some with unfortunate outcomes, I feel it was in bad taste to present this scenario to your guests. Yes, you wanted a different wedding, a wedding to remember, but you could have done that with better taste.

    After I read what you had done, I didn’t bother reading the rest of your post. I am afraid, for me, that was a nail in your coffin. I am no longer interested in what you wish to share with me because you have lost credibility in my eyes, and you have to trust the person you are taking advice from. That ‘trust’ no longer exists.

    Kind regards,

    John in Australia
    PS – I hope you are man enough to allow this post to be seen by others. I will be watching if you do or don’t.

  2. obeng manu james says:

    We Thank GOD to give you a better Best of the Best Wedding of the year

  3. Jaz Lai says:

    It’s ok John. All the best to you!

  4. Randy Seet says:

    Hi Jaz,

    Congratulation for your wedding and next will be father. 🙂

    I do believed the wedding video is part of your coming movie right? When the movie will be screen?

    Ya, so true of always follow a proven system and no point re-inventing the wheel and just do it better.

    Have Nice Days Ahead. 🙂

    An early Gong Xi Fa Cai.

  5. Jaz Lai says:

    Randy, please continue to learn and take action. You have a great character. Keep it going!

  6. Cecile Lynde says:

    Hi,

    I am lucky to have lived , and worked, in many different counties all over the world. It is fascinating learning about different cultures and constantly learning about the world, and people, around us. It would be wonderful if we were all caring, loving, thoughtful people who accepted that despite our differences we are all on this planet together – no matter how hard or easy our different experiences are. Jaz comes from a different culture than the Anglo Saxon one ( and yes, most Australians do too – I have also lived and worked there and have numerous relatives there. ) Jaz obviously was going by his wedding traditions, even though he made a movie that would probably have horrified people from a different tradition ). He makes it quite plain that his family and friends loved it – how can anyone lose respect for another person because of that? Personally, I have really enjoyed the obvious joy and happiness he has experienced through marrying the woman he loves. He has shared that experience with us; there is little enough joy in the world, unfortunately, and as long as the person providing it has integrety ( very absent in the internet world ) and is honest ( also very rare in the same world) I, for one, applaud him and wish him every happiness. There are too many humourless, money-driven individuals with no joy of living around. Give me good, honest, happy and successful ( a rare combination ) person any day. Good luck Jai; don’t let others take away from you happiness and just please don’t let success change your values as it has done with so many others.

    Message for John:

    If you had read the entire post you may have learnt a thing or two. You are entitled to your opinions, but I think it extremely rude to post it publicly. What harm came to you? You could have just let Jai know and withdrawn from receiving further help from him. What, exactly, have you done to help other marketers and those struggling to build a business on line? Do you only accept help from people who think exactly as you do? I really do not think that will help you succeed but, hopefully, if you do, I also hope you will be as generous as Jaz is.

    Submitted by:

    Cecile Lynde.

  7. Gremar says:

    Congratulations on your successful wedding..very unique and well above the rest of a normal wedding…thank you for the wonderful tips to be a successful internet marketer…

  8. Congraluation , super wedding

    Thank to the motivating sharing.

  9. Jaz Lai says:

    Cecile, thanks for your support. Your comment just makes my day brighter. It’s people like you that make me want to work harder to serve and help you.

    Well said and let’s keep making the world a better place!

  10. Pedro says:

    Felicidades Jaz, a tu familia. Sumamente interesante es para mi el estilo en sí, pero el condimento que brinda el poder de la opulencia. Que todos soñamos y apreciamos como una muestra de éxito que has logrado y con ello el poder hacer lo mejor ya con una forma perfeccionista. No importa así cuanto cuesta para hacer realidad y mostrar a muchas personas que se puede. Otra cosa más revelado a la multitud es el toque de artista de cine que tienes en tu persona y que ha sorprendido a los comenzales sin saber la actuación de película! Yo recuerdo haber leido que estas filmando. El más valiente o el Capitan del Gran Barco del Tesoro del Rey eres para nosotros hacia el camino del éxito. Y no sabe cuanto espero entender!!!!

  11. Negin says:

    Dear Jaz congradulation on your wedding. I live in Iran & I like so much to be able to work at home & earn money. Would you kindly tell me if there is a way I can do that considering the fact that due to the sanction I hardly can find sites that accept me.
    yours Negin

  12. Akpa says:

    Hi..i love the family,your wed is the best i my companying also my family apprecaited your famiy picture,my sister ask me to contact you here in Nigeria,my best happyness i you is all your imformation you give me is helping my desire,but try to send me money through my bank account,account number 04640680013189,Naira savings account Name Akpa Ugobueze Leonard.pls if possible transfer it 200 dollars help me i in Nigeria,phone num..07033140036.I wish yous love dreams..send my reguide to your lovely family..Bye

  13. cirus says:

    Hai jaz,

    Congratulation for your wedding and happy chinese new year..

  14. muhammad jamil says:

    Hi Jaz,

    Congratulate to you for your wedding ceremony. I prey for you that you receive a lot of happiness in life. God Bless you to and your family all time.

    Thanks,

    Muhammad Jamil

  15. kritanan says:

    Hi Jazz,

    It is true for everyone that our live must go on to live in this world to the last
    place in graveyard. We are the world to face good opportunity or troubles on the road we are going. You have shown your success in business that
    is good opportunity you have now. There are other sides that you must do
    to make your life in peaceful and happy to work for the world. You are young and have time to do more for the world.

    Thanks for sharing your personal life.
    kritanan

  16. penny says:

    very enlightening post. i think most pple first step is to findbthat nichebthat i is distinctive to them.

  17. nora says:

    Congratulation on your wedding. Wishing you happiness always & fill with good wealth in your business. I hope to learn more from you on internet business.

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  19. g.f says:

    you look so dashing

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